Generally speaking, if your mate is in good health and between 20-50 yrs old, he should be desiring sex about every 72 hrs or so. There are however, there are many factors that can turn him off or hinder him from initiating some play-time with you. How is your relationship? Is he happy? Does he feel you nag or argue with him too much? Does he think you've gained weight and aren't as "attractive as you use to be"? If you honestly perceive that all is well and yet he's still not bugging you for some action twice a week,...you might be competing with adult internet sites or an "affair". The affair might be physical or simply at the emotional stage. The affair might be with work or a hobby/past time. Either way you look at it, you obviously lack INTO-ME-SEE in your relationship. Most of us think of sex when we hear the word intimacy but true oneness in a relationship is developed when both partners are committed to serving and meeting the needs of the other. Just one last thing…. Since you have an emotional and physical need that isn't being met buy your mate, be on guard that you not stumble upon someone at work, church, online, etc. that speaks your love language and then one day find that you’re all tangled up and in a big mess. If you need some help in your relationship, get it! A wise person once said, “No one asks for help in marriage until their misery is greater than their fear of what people might say or think.”

Check out http://www.familylife.com for great marriage and family tools.

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• OT - Very personal question..., saabtom, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 12:08:40
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Wendy, Sat, 12 Feb 2005 19:18:23
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., chrisx, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 23:37:54
    • well said, Scott Paterson , Thu, 13 Jan 2005 18:50:13
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., SeeVTSaab, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 05:53:52
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Steve in Chicago, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 16:40:54
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Haru, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 16:25:20
  • In frequency issues....., Amy, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 15:02:40
    • How old is he? Any medications?, Carina, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 21:28:00
    • INTO-ME-SEE, Henry, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 10:45:38 <-- Viewing This Message
      • That site is a bit too..., Bob M, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 11:41:22
    • It's really hard to say..., C, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 10:27:57
    • sadly,, Bob M, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 08:08:44
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Daanimal900, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 14:42:41
  • Go see Kinsey......, Mike Lynch , Mon, 10 Jan 2005 12:58:01
  • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Bob, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 12:53:24
    • Blue? doesn't sound so good to me. nm, Andy E, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 15:53:19
    • dig that. when i've lived with someone it was similar>, prodigal son, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 14:49:35
    • Re: OT - Very personal question..., Scott Paterson , Mon, 10 Jan 2005 13:22:24
      • Pounding out code..., Tim, Mon, 10 Jan 2005 15:12:24
        • Yeah, among other things!! (nm), turrbo , Mon, 10 Jan 2005 22:16:38
          • so code blue is a Good Thing, eh??? !!! ???? nm, prodigal son, Tue, 11 Jan 2005 14:51:11

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