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Re: A month or so >
Posted by Bob M [Email] (more from Bob M) on Thu, 6 Mar 2003 07:01:35
In Reply to: A month or so >, ChipJ, Wed, 5 Mar 2003 21:49:47
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I think that relationships are complex. In this case, she's a mother of a single daughter. She has her daughter every other day and every weekend, and she's made the decision (with which I agree) that I should not meet her daughter until she's sure she loves me. I'm busy and she's busy (she also has a company where she does seminars) and we really only get together every other weekend, for basically one date. Additionally, she's chosen non-emotionally connected men her entire life. It's easy to see this pattern -- the men in her life were not able to comfort her or connect with her in some manner. I'm totally the opposite. So, I'm asking her to change 20 years of dating in one person. She has chosen better partners each time, but this is a lot to ask.
Personally, for the amount of time I've actually been with her and given her background (and given many other details, the likes of which I will not give now), I don't think she should be worried about whether she loves me. I think we should set a date by which, if she doesn't love me by then, then we should call it quits. That date can be a month from now or sooner.
Bob
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Posts in this Thread:
- Way, Way OT: How long did it take you..., Bob M, Wed, 5 Mar 2003 13:40:51
- seconds, thorgan, Thu, 6 Mar 2003 17:49:25
- interesting post, in my experience it is usually the wo, tturboboy, Thu, 6 Mar 2003 12:37:31
- Love at first sight... just lucky I guess n/m, Kirk S, Thu, 6 Mar 2003 08:53:21
- Re: Way, Way OT: How long did it take you..., Nathan Pflaum , Wed, 5 Mar 2003 23:58:54
- A few weeks for us too, saabgirlie , Wed, 5 Mar 2003 22:01:02
- A month or so >, ChipJ, Wed, 5 Mar 2003 21:49:47
- A few weeks, then six years..., Richard P., Wed, 5 Mar 2003 20:13:24
- A few weeks for us..., Noel, Wed, 5 Mar 2003 18:36:23
- 9 years..., Scott Paterson , Wed, 5 Mar 2003 16:36:07
- Re: Way, Way OT: How long did it take you..., Adam , Wed, 5 Mar 2003 14:01:25
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