In Reply to: She told me to..., Clay McNeely [Profile/Gallery] , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 10:48:25

you are the one who is playing both sides of the fence. I have been in similair circumstances, and the decision to allow this to be handled with out 'authorities' is usaully done as a courtesy to the parents of the child involved. We all know how high insurance rates can be for younger drivers and an accident like that will not only increase your son's rate, but often the rates for the whole family, if it is a shared policy. In that situation I would only agree to not get insurance involved as a favor to the person who hit me, as I would be exposed to the potential of receiving zero compensation. It seems as though Mr. McNeely was uncomfortable with the time frame of your responses, and upset that he never received monies which you claimed you sent.

You have not taken into the account the percarious position that Mr McNeely put himself in by agreeing to deal with this personally. Nor do you seen to have any appreciation for the effect of that claiming 'the check's in the mail" when it never was. Throwing out the word 'harassment' to make yourself look like a victim doesn't change the basic facts of the situation.

Mr. McNeely's car was struck by your son's vehicle.

You made a deal to take care of the damage.

You renegged on the deal, after making false claims of payment.

I understand that we all get caught up in arguments and will go to great lengths to defend our own side (it is OURS after all). I will not ask you to change your opinion of the matter in any public forum, rather to examine the events privately and ask yourself if you feel that you acted in an honorable manner that you are proud of.

Best Regards,

Chad

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• She told me to..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 10:48:25
  • FWIW, if you play the game right, you'll do ok w/ins., mdj, Mon, 12 Apr 2004 15:11:18
  • Actually..., Wavey, Mon, 12 Apr 2004 05:55:36
  • IMHO not having to deal with this person ever again, IanC , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 16:16:05
  • Get an Alias! ...my real name aint Yak..nm, Yak, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 15:11:40
  • well I have to give her some credit..., saabgirlie , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 14:41:49
    • Somewhat..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 14:45:18
      • She deserves no credit, google his name..., JBinDC, Sat, 10 Apr 2004 06:57:35
  • LeeAnn McDonald it seems as though, Chad, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 13:59:49 <-- Viewing This Message
    • Amen..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 14:03:10
  • wow! she actually found that out here?, Bart, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:48:00
    • How about "Baart" ? ;-) n/m, SaabKen, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 15:32:50
    • Yep..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:54:40
      • Don't forget that you can search for a user.., turrbo , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 14:31:22
        • And I know what you did last summer..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 14:36:46
  • Damn..., turrbo , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:26:01
  • Passing the buck is never the high road..., KB900psi, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:11:53
    • Correction..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:20:16
  • Insurance co's pay retail...., Mike Lyncy, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:10:36
    • I agree..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:22:36
  • what a _ _ _ _ _!, Sonja, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 11:49:16
    • The wonderful world of explicatives. :-) n/m, Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 12:05:18
  • What happened to responsibility..., Andy E, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 11:17:02
    • Thank you..., Clay McNeely , Fri, 9 Apr 2004 11:23:47
  • Re: She told me to..., matt 94 aero, Fri, 9 Apr 2004 10:58:17

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