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Been there, done it...> (long)
Posted by StanleyB (more from StanleyB) on Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:44:39
In Reply to: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
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Result? Once the girlfriend has got hooked on another bloke, you might as well change sail and head in a different direction. I ploughed more money into winning back girlfriend, than I have spent on cars. But once money is done, girl is gone again.
Funny thing is that I am just writing a book about some of my experiences. And guess what! First few lines mentions me throwing up!
But take it from me, the vibes you describe that she has been passing indicates that you are a gonner as far as she is concerned. And the advise from her friends just goes to show that they are not the type of crowd you want to hang around with.
On a closing note: my first longterm girlfriend tricked me up with a motorbike dude. He showered her with gifts etc. Then he slept with her twice and did a runner. We sort of tried to patch things up, but it did not work out. So she picked someone else, who she was with for 15 years. He left her with a sick daughter who just had a heart transplant. And guess what: my mother is now helping her to look after the very ill daughter. And she now admits that she should never have left me. I was the best bloke she ever had. But time has passed. I am happily married to someone else.
I hope my experience has been of some help to you. Keep up a stiff upper lips. Don't get beaten by this, and get a new life. You deserve it, and you are still young.
posted by 81.7.5...
Posts in this Thread:
- OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
- An update, Redmilk, Sat, 30 Nov 2002 01:25:21
- Are you kidding? (Tough love on the way ...), j-ro, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 14:33:56
- 'Talking things out here on the BB is one way of>, Traffic Shark , Fri, 29 Nov 2002 12:24:30
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Chad, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 11:11:01
- Don't play games and don't use psycology...., Richard P., Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:05:00
- Here be the solution, Sir Mix-a-lot, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:01:25
- Something to consider, Daanimal900, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 03:21:57
- It hurts me a bit to read this . . ., MJP, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:50:08
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Erik, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 19:25:44
- General Theme..., FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:46:39
- Its your call man..., bRAD, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:44:00
- Keep them coming, this helps. thanks. nm, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:07:03
- Yes, I agree that the reach and withdraw that you talk, KB88900T, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:54:35
- Female point of view encouraged too! nm, redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:15:58
- Been there, done it...> (long), StanleyB, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:44:39 <-- Viewing This Message
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:33:28
- My advise ..., J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:31:48
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