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It hurts me a bit to read this . . .
Posted by MJP (more from MJP) on Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:50:08
In Reply to: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
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Same boat as you. She and I went off to college at different schools. She met someone else, I didn't (and didn't want to). I was CRUSHED as you are now. Out of a dire need to be constructive, I turned to exercise. I can still vividly remember taking my aggresion out on 6 flights of stairs at the University rec center. Up and down, basically until I collapsed.
The hurt takes a LONG time to end . . . but it does end.
Payback was the day we met up again, three years later, when she asked if I would take her back. By then I was seeing things in a clearer light and I wisely said no.
Here's the thing, you will NEVER forget her. NEVER! It's been more than 12 years and I still think of her every once and a while. Importantly, I only remember the good times.
Love is a mighty powerful thing my friend. I wish you the best of luck as you struggle through this.
One final word of advice, please pay attention to how you handle the people around you. I alienated several friends because of my moping. Stand tall and look past today toward tomorrow.
-mark
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Posts in this Thread:
- OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
- An update, Redmilk, Sat, 30 Nov 2002 01:25:21
- Are you kidding? (Tough love on the way ...), j-ro, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 14:33:56
- 'Talking things out here on the BB is one way of>, Traffic Shark , Fri, 29 Nov 2002 12:24:30
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Chad, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 11:11:01
- Don't play games and don't use psycology...., Richard P., Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:05:00
- Here be the solution, Sir Mix-a-lot, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:01:25
- Something to consider, Daanimal900, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 03:21:57
- It hurts me a bit to read this . . ., MJP, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:50:08 <-- Viewing This Message
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Erik, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 19:25:44
- General Theme..., FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:46:39
- Its your call man..., bRAD, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:44:00
- Keep them coming, this helps. thanks. nm, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:07:03
- Yes, I agree that the reach and withdraw that you talk, KB88900T, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:54:35
- Female point of view encouraged too! nm, redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:15:58
- Been there, done it...> (long), StanleyB, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:44:39
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:33:28
- My advise ..., J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:31:48
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