Firstly, I'd like to thank everyone who responded to my needs, I really appreciate it and it has helped tremendously. I have spoken with her a couple of times since the posting, and she was very sad and confused.

Alot of stuff happened that is simply too much stuff to write and doing so will just stress me all over again, but pretty much the moral of the story is that she needs her time and that I should listen to U2's "All that you can't leave behind" Track 4 and Track 5. She said that the lyrics in the songs is really how she feels inside and that she can't express it to me, but that the lyrics are exactly what she is feeling.

After close disection of the lyrics with my friend and his wife, who studied psychology in college, the lyrics pretty much say that I need this time alone right now, but that this isn't goodbye because at the end of the tunnel it is you that I really want.

So I am in really good spirits and quite confident that she will come back to me. I'll keep everyone updated, and thanks again, I really mean that. Thanks!

Jose

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• OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
  • An update, Redmilk, Sat, 30 Nov 2002 01:25:21 <-- Viewing This Message
  • Are you kidding? (Tough love on the way ...), j-ro, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 14:33:56
    • Saab = Chick Magnet, FrozenSaab, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 15:23:06
  • 'Talking things out here on the BB is one way of>, Traffic Shark , Fri, 29 Nov 2002 12:24:30
  • Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Chad, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 11:11:01
  • Don't play games and don't use psycology...., Richard P., Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:05:00
    • Re: Don't play games and don't use psycology...., Tio Barry, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:49:54
      • Re: Don't play games and don't use psycology...., KsKid, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 12:57:26
  • Here be the solution, Sir Mix-a-lot, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:01:25
  • Something to consider, Daanimal900, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 03:21:57
    • Similar to Daanimal900, Terry G-B, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 11:21:03
      • You reminded me of something..., Daanimal900, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 23:35:20
  • It hurts me a bit to read this . . ., MJP, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:50:08
    • I know a guy who went through the same thing ..., J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:58:55
  • Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Erik, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 19:25:44
  • General Theme..., FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:46:39
  • Its your call man..., bRAD, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:44:00
    • I'll tell you something bRAD,..., StanleyB, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:57:36
      • it was a joke, MJP, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:54:01
  • Keep them coming, this helps. thanks. nm, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:07:03
  • Yes, I agree that the reach and withdraw that you talk, KB88900T, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:54:35
    • Thank you KB nm, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:05:52
  • Female point of view encouraged too! nm, redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:15:58
  • Been there, done it...> (long), StanleyB, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:44:39
    • StanleyB makes a good point..., FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:51:20
  • Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:33:28
  • My advise ..., J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:31:48
    • DOH! ... It should say "My advice" or "I advise". n/m, J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:32:40
      • Thank you stanley, frozen, J. nm, redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:06:30

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